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Creative Commons License: Want to use our material? Write to us saying how. By using this site you agree to our terms and conditions. Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-51812733452950667012022-12-10T02:12:00.001-08:002022-12-10T02:12:06.566-08:00His...7 (A long work of Erotica) <p> Disclaimer and Trigger Warnings<br /><br /> Any resemblance with any person living or dead is coincidental. All characters are 18+.<br /> Any choice of names is random, and not indicative on any caste, religion etc. The setting is in India, so readers need to NOT PROJECT THEIR BIASES on my work.<br /> I write for my pleasure. At my pace. I'm mindful of trigger warnings where they matter, but I don't overapologize. I am aware of FL limits, legal limits, boundaries in general.<br /> A lot of my fictional work is dark and deals with themes of depression, violence, rough sex, non-consent self-harm, suicide etc. So, if any of these themes are potentially triggering for you, I request you to please not read thhe work and focus on self-care.<br /> Apart from that, I take time to build my stories. The way I want. So, if this is too harsh, too mild, too little, too much, whine elsewhere. If this is too much sex, too little sex, too realistic, too unrealistic, too much plot, too much dialogue, take your judgement / opinion and put it where it belongs. Unless you're my writing mentor. Because - YKINMK.<br /><br /><br />________________________________<br /><br />"Baby, if you are reading this, I am dead. Or at least sufficiently presumed to be so."<br /><br />The letter began.<br /><br />Mini sat stoically and read on. Krishnan sat next to her, reading the letter with her. He averted his gaze to the wall in front of her. This princess-styled room made him a bit queasy. It brought out his protective side way more than he liked it to be revealed. Mini turned to him, and handed over the crisp, pearl white sheet to him. Nodding to him, she let him read the letter as she bent over the box of journals to drag it with her good hand. <br /><br />Krishnan was distracted momentarily by her pert, inviting bottom as she bent over the box, and then pulled himself back to the letter. As he read Anurag's graceful cursive hand, and choked back his tears. He missed the man. Terribly so. <br /><br />_______________________________________________<br /><br />Baby, if you are reading this, I am dead. Or at least sufficiently presumed to be so."<br /><br />You will receive my journals. You may choose to read them or not. I want you to read them from beginning to end. <br /><br />Not at the cost of your study, or work, whatever it is you do now. You know I would have no tolerance for that. <br /><br />I wonder if you're reading them with Krishnan, or alone. I would like if you read these journals together, but it is your decision to make. Mini, this is my legacy to you, to do as you please.<br /><br />I am aware that Bhaiya and Abhishek would have read them. It is alright. There's nothing in those letters that you can read and they can't. The vice versa is true as well. One thing I trust is their integrity. So, you will get the journals unedited, intact. <br /><br />I have paid attention to not include any business sensitive, or potentially damaging pieces of information. However, I have ensured that I include all that would matter to you. All that I would want to teach you, to show you, to help you explore if you wished. <br /><br />I am sorry I am not around to do that. But know that I always love you.<br /><br />Forever, and then more.<br /><br />Love,<br />Anu Da<br /><br />__________________________________________________<br /><br />They looked at each other, relieved that it was OK to read these journals together. <br /><br />She opened the first page. It was dated some ten years ago. <br /><br />"I was horny the entire day today", it began. <br /><br />"WOW!" she shook her head.<br /><br />"I was horny the entire day today... It is a sad day. I am struggling. I need comfort. I am angry. I wish there was some way to channelize this anger. I am overwhelmed. I am even concerned... my baby, my kid sister. I cannot see her in pain. Pramila came today, but I am not sure if I want to see her today. Of course I know that she wants to fuck because she thinks it will help me feel normal again. But it feels so wrong. How can one grieve and also enjoy fuckery together?" <br /><br />Mini shrank. With embarassment, what with Anurag laying his innermost thoughts open in front of his sister. AFTER being dead. And what with her own desires, for Krishnan. Sitting so close. Her hands she clasped in her own lap, overcautious of not to lettheir bodies touch. It was wrong afterall. Even Anu Da felt it was wrong.<br /><br />Krishnan and she turned pages, full of Anurag's turmoil, his emotional dilemmas, and yet his desires. Mini blinked. She was overwhelmed. Tired. Horny. Grieving. Lonely. Relieved that Krishnan sat next to her. Mostly she was tired. This was too much to process.<br /><br />She lifted her head, and looked at Krishnan. "Sir, I have a headache now", she tried to hide her bloodshot eyes, by averting her gaze.<br /><br />Krishnan leaned across her, reaching for a bookmark. Her table always had one too many. <br /><br />He marked the page, closed the notebook, and nodded. Lost deep in thought. <br /><br />"Drink some water first. Hydrating helps."<br /><br />She drank from the glass on the side table, put it back. Her cast was gone, but her hand wasn't fully functional yet. She was working with a physiotherapist. <br /><br />"How is it healing? Does the therapy hurt a lot?"<br /><br />She quietly nodded and lay down, trying to adjust the covers with one hand.<br /><br />He pulled the blankets over her, tucked her in, a little too tenderly for a giant man his size and turned around to switch the lights off and close the door; when he felt her fingers tug at his.<br /><br />Quizzically he looked at her and she pointed to her forehead and pleaded, "Please?"<br /><br />Krishnan was torn. He wanted her. He wanted her body. He wanted all of her. What she offered was just a forehead kiss. But it was hers to have, and his to give. He knew her enough to realize that even if he refused, she wouldn't hold it against him. Consent had been a big thing with this family. They were all raised with that education.<br /><br />"What if I will want more?" He gave it back to her. Straightshooter. As always.<br /><br />She blinked. She sensed he wanted more. She knew he always talked straight. But this? She had not expected him to ask her.<br /><br />"We can talk about that. Anytime you like.", she tried to sit up, but he gently shoved her shoulder back, not allowing her to rise.<br /><br />"Yes we will. Later. One moment at a time.". He said in a calm, serene voice, kissed her forehead, stroked her hair once, and left.<br /><br /><br />©Asmi Uniqus Dec 2022</p>Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-18978556454379506602022-12-08T10:06:00.003-08:002022-12-08T10:06:49.523-08:00His...6 (A long work of Erotica) <p> Disclaimer and Trigger Warnings<br /><br /> Any resemblance with any person living or dead is coincidental. All characters are 18+.<br /> Any choice of names is random, and not indicative on any caste, religion etc. The setting is in India, so readers need to NOT PROJECT THEIR BIASES on my work.<br /> I write for my pleasure. At my pace. I'm mindful of trigger warnings where they matter, but I don't overapologize. I am aware of FL limits, legal limits, boundaries in general.<br /> A lot of my fictional work is dark and deals with themes of depression, violence, rough sex, non-consent self-harm, suicide etc. So, if any of these themes are potentially triggering for you, I request you to please not read thhe work and focus on self-care.<br /> Apart from that, I take time to build my stories. The way I want. So, if this is too harsh, too mild, too little, too much, whine elsewhere. If this is too much sex, too little sex, too realistic, too unrealistic, too much plot, too much dialogue, take your judgement / opinion and put it where it belongs. Unless you're my writing mentor. Because - YKINMK.<br /><br /><br />________________________________<br /><br />"These are not for anyone else's eye. She is an adult and none of you can stop her from having what Anurag specifically left for her. Plus it doesn't have any business-sensitive information. Nor does it have anything that Mini can be blackmailed for. It poses absolutely no risk for Mini's physical, legal, or financial safety. I have made sure of that." The object in question was a box of journals.<br /><br />Advocate Bajaj was executing Anurag's will. Most of his assets had gone back to the family business, and family trust. Some amount had been set aside for his two sisters. His journals and his documents had been scruitinized by Bajaj, both as a family lawyer, as well as the brother-in-law. Additionally, as their family and business counselor, he had already shown them to Dr. Mathur. <br /><br />It was Dr. Mathur's wife who suspected that the journals may have information related to Anurag's sexual escapades, his relationships, Pramila even. She feared it would corrupt Mins.<br /><br />Mins sat quiet, her hands in her lap. Clench. Unclench. Clench. Unclench.<br /><br />Krishnan's keen eye could observe her being on edge. Krishnan had a place on the table. He was considered family by EVERYONE, in EVERY WAY, except that they couldn't have adopted an adult legally. Or they would have.<br /><br />Krishnan gently patted Mini's knee, almost rhythmically, as one would pat a child to a lull. It seemed to be working too.<br /><br />"Mini, do you wish to open these journals? You don't have to. This can wait. Do you think it would affect your emotions? What do you feel like doing?" asked Dr. Mathur. He had his blindspots, but he believed in agency.<br /><br />"Bhaiya, I am 22. I am from a family of doctors. I have seen enough blood and Gore. I know exactly what humans do, even if I may not understand all their motives."<br /><br />"Bhabhi, ab mujhe koi kya hi bigadega? What has the power to destroy your upbringing and spoil me or impact me negatively after all these years Bhabhi?", she turned towards her sister-in-law. The matron looked at the young girl thoughtfully, and finally nodded. Her shoulders sank in surrender and she nodded to Bajaj.<br /><br />Back in her room, Mini looked at the journals. They were all dated. 12 years. Since that fateful day, till the day before Anurag and she had landed in the hospital. There was also an envelop. Embossed. Formal. It was a part of Anurag's official stationary. <br /><br />Mini knew Bajaj had definitely gone through each word in those notebooks, and in that letter. And that Bhaiya had surely seen it. But Krishnan? Mini needed him.<br /><br />She sighed, put the letter in her drawer and walked towards Krishnan's room. <br /><br />"Knock. Knock Knock." This was Mini's specific knock. <br /><br />Krishnan startled from his reverie, groaned at his half-erect cock, and spoke out, "Give me a minute!". <br /><br />Quickly, he pulled on a pair of Pajamas, tied the drawstrings, pulled his tee lower, and opened the door.<br /><br />"I need you. Please!" Mini, looked at his biceps. When he wore formals, they weren't that obvious. Right now? He looked ravishing to her.<br /><br />Krishnan looked at her quizzically, an eyebrow arched.<br /><br />"I need you to be with me when I read. I don't think I can do it alone". There. The tears again. Not brimming, but welling up for sure. <br /><br />She was still grieving. It had just been a month. <br /><br />He just nodded, turned around, picked his phone, closed his room and walked with her to hers. <br /><br />©Asmi Uniqus Dec 2022</p>Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-3993771591130575992022-12-06T11:08:00.002-08:002022-12-06T11:08:07.636-08:00His... 5 (A long work of Erotica)<p> Disclaimer and Trigger Warnings<br /><br /></p><ol style="text-align: left;"><li>Any resemblance with any person living or dead is coincidental. All characters are 18+.</li><li>Any choice of names is random, and not indicative on any caste,
religion etc. The setting is in India, so readers need to NOT PROJECT
THEIR BIASES on my work.</li><li>I write for my pleasure. At my pace. I'm
mindful of trigger warnings where they matter, but I don't
overapologize. I am aware of FL limits, legal limits, boundaries in
general.</li><li>A lot of my fictional work is dark and deals with themes
of depression, violence, rough sex, non-consent self-harm, suicide etc.
So, if any of these themes are potentially triggering for you, I
request you to please not read thhe work and focus on self-care.</li><li>Apart from that, I take time to build my stories. The way I want. So, if
this is too harsh, too mild, too little, too much, whine elsewhere. If
this is too much sex, too little sex, too realistic, too unrealistic,
too much plot, too much dialogue, take your judgement / opinion and put
it where it belongs. Unless you're my writing mentor. Because - YKINMK.</li></ol><p><br />________________________________</p><p><br /><br />"Krishnan Bhaiya, Mini baby fainted again", Rani didi, the maid stood at the door, all worked up, tears almost welling up in her eyes. Rani Didi had been Mini's babysitter since the latter had been a young toddler. <br /><br />Rani was barely 15 when Mins was born. Today when Mins was young, beautiful, 22. Rani didi was not more than 38 either. She cared for Mins. She had always been there for the Mathurs and Anurag to help them with Mins since that fateful day 10 years ago.<br /><br />Krishnan sighed, collected his stethoscope, pointed towards the equipment kit, and simply walked towards the room across the hall. Rani did would get the BP machine, the thermometer, the oximeter, and the sugar measuring machines. This home had doctors for generations. This home was a half-equipped nursing home in itself. <br /><br />Mins had been fainting since Anurag's funeral. Her scans were normal. Her blood work was normal. Her vitals were fine. Yet, she kept fainting. Krishnan had restricted her movement on stairs, or outside the home for the time being. With Anurag gone, Dr. Mathur was nose-deep in dealing with his own grief, inthe only way he knew how to. He had thrown himself into work and into sorting Anurag's affairs with their family lawyer. <br /><br />Adv. Bajaj was not only the Mathurs' family lawyer. He was also their son-in-law. Abhishek was a Harvard-qualified lawyer who had done his chartered accountancy before studying law, and eventually management. The Mathurs trusted him. Their daughter loved him. There was no reason for Abhishek and his wife to not look out for the Mathurs' interests. <br /><br />Ties in this family WERE strange for a family where such wealth, power, and skill were concentrated. They were really loving people. They were bonded together with love. Of course, they weren't perfect. They each had their blindspots, but they were good people. They had been raised well. They were ethical. Only that some of them were VERY VERY dead now.<br /><br />Thoughts reeled in Krishnan's head as he entered Mins' room, and nodded to Rani Didi. They measured all the vitals again. Everything was OK.<br /><br />"Rani didi, iske pairon ki maalish karo, aur thodi thodi haathon ki bhi. Sab normal hai, weakness hogi. Isne kuchh khaya hai?", Krishnan inquired if she had eaten anything as he instructed Rani to massage Mins' hands and feet.<br /><br />"No Bhaiya, she hasn't eaten much except toast and coffee at the breakfast".<br /><br />Krishnan groaned inwardly. He just didn't want to unleash his anger at this brat. Not yet.<br /><br />He took the oil bottle from Rani's hand and spread some on his hand. "Please get a glass of fresh nariyal pani", he told her. As Rani left for the kitchen, Krishnan was already applying oil to Mins' feet. Gently rubbing her soles, Krishnan pulled her toes a bit, kneading her soles to ensure all pressure points were treated just right.<br /><br />If Krishnan had his way, he would prescribe massages twice a week for Mins. Perhaps give her one himself every week. "Focus!", he chided himself mentally and shook his head. He worked his way through her soles to her ankles. He went and soaped his hands in the princess washroom, dried them, and now decided to work her palms.<br /><br />Rani didi was already there and had set the glass of fresh coconut water on the side table. She stood there silently, watching him, as he gently spread a few drops of the almond oil on his palms, and lifted Mins' right palm. <br /><br />Did her fingers twitch around his? He wondered. Again. He felt her fingertips press against his as he applied oil to her palms. <br /><br />"Rani didi, either sit or continue with your chores, as you wish please", Krishnan instructed Rani. She smiled and left for the kitchen again. "Please leave the door open", he called after Rani. That she did. She liked Krishnan Bhaiya. He was always a gentleman.<br /><br />Mins moaned softly as Krishnan continued to gently massage her palms. She slowly opened her eyes. Deep, sad, unfathomable grief. Her eyes were expressive. Honest. They were incapable of lying. How the room used to light up when she smiled :)<br /><br />Krishnan knew the impact Mini's smile had on his friend's mood. Anurag loved his sister unconditionally. Her smiles seemed to justify his existence. All the rest of him, the charming, the dashing, the handsome, the successful, the skilled Anurag; they all came after the brother came. The brother came first. And Mins? Her smile? It came before him.<br /><br />Oh, and Krishnan wasn't naive. He did realize that he was as smitten with her smile, as Anurag had been. Just not as a brother. And the little vixen wasn't all that naive either. She knew the effect she could have on him. <br /><br />In general, she was a gentle, submissive, adorable, brat. This little vulnerable china doll. She was mischievous, she was playful, flirty even, but she wasn't manipulative. She wasn't a cocktease. She was just smitten. Smitten with him.<br /><br />So, when Mins' fingers gripped Krishnan's, he held her. Gently. Holding her against him, he moved a bit, adjusting himself. Gently rocking her, as one would rock a child. Soaking in their common grief. They grieved in silence together. <br /><br />The reverie was broken when Krishnan brought the nariyal pani to her lips. Her eyes welled up again. She tried to sip a bit and then shook her head. <br /><br />"Drink!" Krishnan's voice turned hard. "You need to recover. And you will do that either willingly, or I will ensure that you do that. Choose!", He sounded angry.<br /><br />Mins cringed. She hated to make Anurag da or Krishnan angry. She could never think of Krishnan as 'bhaiya'. She had always been attracted to Krishnan. <br /><br />"What?", Krishnan was frustrated.<br /><br />Mins cringed and pulled back, avoiding his gaze. Why did it turn her on so much? This fear of his being upset? <br /><br />Krishnan sighed. He didn't enjoy scaring people. Especially people he cared for. Krishnan was tall. He worked out. So, even at his leanest, he could look like this huge giant. Moreso, from where Mins was. <br /><br />At 4.10 Mins was tiny. She was curvy, but she was a child. He didn't like to scare her. But he needed her to regroup. They would be executing Anurag's will soon and Mins needed to gather herself. With Dr. Mathur MIA on this front, Krishnan was left to deal with this petite brat. And God! It was tough! His raging hardons were not the most cooperative. <br /><br />"Sorry Sir". That's what Mins had always called him. Sir. It frustrated him. It made him feel responsible. It aroused him. And, there was nothing he could do about it.<br /><br />She drank up the whole glass of coconut water, eyes still brimming with tears.<br /><br />"Good girl", he took the glass from her and petted her shoulder with his left hand. Her arm was around her, holding her gently. Like a giant would hold a fragile princess. His gaze and his voice softened. His cock? Well, it had a mind of its own. Thank God for Indian ethnic wear.<br /><br />"Now sleep for a bit. You need to rest and recover."<br /><br />He gently helped her lie down. On the side that avoided strain on her broken elbow.<br /><br />Mins groaned inwardly, "Why does his stern voice turn me on so much?". This was her last thought as she drifted to sleep.</p><p></p><p><br />©Asmi Uniqus Dec 2022<br /><br /></p>Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-84009097432996638792022-12-05T11:36:00.002-08:002022-12-05T11:59:33.570-08:00His... 4 (A long work of Erotica) Disclaimer and Trigger Warnings<br /><br /> Any resemblance with any person living or dead is coincidental. All characters are 18+.<br /> Any choice of names is random, and not indicative on any caste, religion etc. The setting is in India, so readers need to NOT PROJECT THEIR BIASES on my work.<br /> I write for my pleasure. At my pace. I'm mindful of trigger warnings where they matter, but I don't overapologize. I am aware of FL limits, legal limits, boundaries in general.<br /> A lot of my fictional work is dark and deals with themes of depression, violence, rough sex, non-consent self-harm, suicide etc. So, if any of these themes are potentially triggering for you, I request you to please not read thhe work and focus on self-care.<br /> Apart from that, I take time to build my stories. The way I want. So, if this is too harsh, too mild, too little, too much, whine elsewhere. If this is too much sex, too little sex, too realistic, too unrealistic, too much plot, too much dialogue, take your judgement / opinion and put it where it belongs. Unless you're my writing mentor. Because - YKINMK.<br /><br /><br />________________________________<br /><br /><br />Krishnan was sitting in his room holding his head in his hands. That niggling feeling he had? There was more to it. However, he didn't know how to define it. He didn't know enough to connect dots. He knew that Pramila's parents, specially his mother blamed Anurag for Pramila's death. They even blamed Anurag's parents for not pushing him to marry Pramila.<br /><br />Anurag was rich, successful, a talented surgeon in making, second in line to be the heir of an empire of hospitals, creative, handsome, charming. He was a poster boy for an eligible bachelor.<br /><br />Pramila on the other hand? She was hot, sexy, confident, and beautiful. Her priorities were misplaced though. She thought she could make her way in the world by marrying a hotshot. Anurag was nothing to her but just another sex toy and her pass to a rich, lavish lifestyle. True, she was a doctor like the rest of them, but she was neither interested in studying or growing further, nor in business. She just wanted to finish the degree and be a socialite wife.<br /><br />It was all good as long as Anurag and Pramila remained exclusive. But, things started changing once they opened their relationship. Early on in their relationship, Pramila had wanted to include other people. Anurag was reluctant, but after their first menage-a-trois with another girl, he had let loose. In fact, it had been Anurag to suggest that Krishnan be the guy they experiment with. He trusted Krishnan. He felt secure around him.<br /><br />But they didn't know Krishnan. No one really knew Krishnan. Or understood him.<br /><br />Krishnan had been raised by his uncle in Europe after Krishnan's abusive father finally left his mother, and she committed suicide. His uncle legally adopted him. His uncle, who was gay, who practiced BDSM, who had more than one lover; and yet was the best parent Krishnan could have had. He hid nothing. He avoided nothing. He answered all of Krishnan's questions. Even sponsored his higher education.<br /><br />It was only recently that Krishnan stopped taking money from his uncle. Krishnan sometimes wondered. Where was all his dominance, empathy, and affection rooted? Was it in his father's abusiveness? His mother's sense of defeat? Or in his uncle's unconditional love mixed with the in-the-face upbringing that he provided for Krishnan.<br /><br />Krishnan's cock twitched again. That night, with Anurag and Pramila. Anurag was silent while Krishnan ordered Pramila to strip.<br /><br />"Kneel !", he had barked. She couldn't resist.<br />"Crawl !", he pointed to the floor in between Anurag and him. She obeyed.<br />"Touch yourself !", Anurag sat there gapingly.<br /><br />Pramila had writhed that night. She had been ordered to suck Anurag. She had been beaten with a crop numerous times. Whenever she tried to behave like the sexy vixen she was, she had been made to give up the facade. She had been made vulnerable, to reveal her inner submissive, beneath the brat that she projected herself to be.<br /><br />That night Pramila didn't get to orgasm. Krishnan had guided Anurag in pleasing her, not with the same dominance that he showed towards Pramila. Anurag was his friend, his friend. Pramila, was just a brat that Krishnan was hoping to tame for his brother.<br /><br />Krishnan stroked himself, even though he felt guilty for being aroused thinking of a girl who was now dead, and her boyfriend, his best friend, whose body had just been cremated. But Krishnan didn't judge himself. He knew that physical release was one of the ways he could clear his mind. He knew that such desperate moments of loneliness could make one more needy for sex. And that it was OK!<br /><br />Krishnan came, as he remembered how Pramila had sucked Anurag that night. She had taken him deeper than ever before. Anurag said this. She had agreed. She had consented to taste a different kind of lovemaking that night. Everything that Pramila did was consensual. And Krishnan? He had acted like a saintly dungeon master. Plus he wasn't interested in brats himself. Additionally, Pramila and Anurag wanted him, just to teach them what he knew. Not for him to be their third wheel. He didn't want that either.<br /><br />He wanted.... Something else. Someone else. He wanted, rather needed surrender, complete submission. Someone who would look up to him, cherish him, and not just because. Someone who tested his resolve, his will, and loved him as fiercely as he would love her.<br /><br />Krishnan knew who he wanted. He wanted... Mins. Since the day the girl had turned 18, she had been hitting on him. He had resolved to do or say nothing till she finished her Masters. But now, with Anurag dead... He needed her. He needed to protect her.<br /><br />Krishnan wiped his hand on a tissue nearby and zipped his fly. He got up, turned on the tap, soaping his long, slender, skilled surgeon's fingers, and then letting his hands soak for a bit under the warm tap water.<br /><br />"Knock knock!" Someone was at the door.<br /><br />©Asmi Uniqus Dec 2022<br />Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-43524581545011150822022-12-05T00:35:00.006-08:002022-12-05T00:47:09.627-08:00His... 3 (A long work of Erotica)<p><b> Disclaimer and Trigger Warnings</b><br /></p><ol style="text-align: left;"><li>Any resemblance with any person living or dead is coincidental. All characters are 18+.</li><li>Any choice of names is random, and not indicative on any caste, religion etc. The setting is in India, so readers need to NOT PROJECT THEIR BIASES on my work.</li><li>I write for my pleasure. At my pace. I'm mindful of trigger warnings where they matter, but I don't overapologize. I am aware of FL limits, legal limits, boundaries in general.</li><li>A lot of my fictional work is dark and deals with themes of depression, violence, rough sex, non-consent self-harm, suicide etc. So, if any of these themes are potentially triggering for you, I request you to please not read thhe work and focus on self-care.</li><li>Apart from that, I take time to build my stories. The way I want. So, if this is too harsh, too mild, too little, too much, whine elsewhere. If this is too much sex, too little sex, too realistic, too unrealistic, too much plot, too much dialogue, take your judgement / opinion and put it where it belongs. Unless you're my writing mentor. Because - YKINMK.</li></ol><p style="text-align: left;"><br />________________________________<br /><br /><br />Anurag was dreaming incoherently as Krishnan and Mins entered his room. "I'm... sorry Pram. Forgive me...K and I should have taken more care.... Sorry"<br /><br />Mins was livid as she heard the name Pram. Krishnan on the other hand sighed. He was more clued in, on Pramila singh, and Anurag's dream after all.<br /><br />Pramila had been bad news from the word go. Entitled, reckless, irresponsible, going around pricking people with the same needle and calling it fun. Yet most people seemed to be falling head over heals for her.<br /><br />When Pramila and Anurag started dating, Krishnan decided to be Anurag's self-appointed wingman. He kept a polite and watchful eye on the woman. Anurag and Pramila went to bars, parties, munches, play parties. The more Anurag indulged her, the more extreme her kinks got.<br /><br />Krishnan's cock twitched involuntarily as he remembered the single time when Anurag and Pramila invited him into their bed. Krishnan knew he had not been coerced, or manipulated. He had consented to experience with his best friend and his snooty entitled girl-friend something exquisite.<br /><br />Anurag was more of a lover-Dom. Krishnan on the other hand could be a sadist when playing. Pramila wanted to taste that. Krishnan would teach her well. He would ensure he put her in her place. That night? He did put her in her place.<br /><br />He made her bend to his while and his crop, her body he bent, her mind he dominated. The hot Pramila, the wild Pramila, the overconfident Pramila who thought her body was her biggest currency, the mouth Pramila.<br /><br />Eventually turned into a whimpering slut, begging to be touched, to be allowed release, to be allowed to yield. That night Krishnan and Anurag sat and talked. Pramila was left tied, horny, dripping, and wanting.<br /><br />The next morning, she was a different person.<br /><br />But then, the accident happened. The fateful night, that turned their whole world upside down. Anurag's parents. The car crash. Mins. Anurag transformed into a person no one would have ever imagined him to be.<br /><br />Over the next few months, Anurag was centered around Mins.<br /><br />Pramila mentioned, complained, even whined. She couldn't prioritize. Obviously. They were wrong to think that a single session could have changed a person. Play isn't therapy. And entitled princesses aren't exactly givers. Guess you can bring out a bitch in heat, but you can't take the bitch out of someone.<br /><br />No one could have imagined what happened next. Till it happened. On that fateful night. That night when Mins had made the first attempt on her life. While Anurag and Krishnan were rushing the child to the hospital Pramila was planning an attention seeking stunt of her own.<br /><br />She texted, called Anurag some 15 times that night. He silenced his phone.<br /><br />The next morning, doctors in the hospital told them that Mins had survived. On the other hand, they discovered that Pramila had died. Inside sources said it was a self-bondage experiment that had gone horridly wrong.<br /><br />The Singh family were powerful. They blamed Anurag for not responding to their daughter's distress calls. Anurag's alibi however was more than perfect. Genuine too.<br /><br />Anurag never stopped blaming himself.<br /><br />Mins however, blamed Pram for making her brother sad, when she discovered what had happened. She had been simply told Pramila didi died the night Mins could have. She was angry at Pram. She had never liked Pram in the first place.<br /><br />Krishnan thought differently. He knew suicide wasn't so easy to fathom. He also knew that Pramila's mishap was NOT an attempt on her life. It was an accident. One that could have been avoided. But an accident nonetheless.<br /><br />As Mins and Krishnan sat quietly holding Anurag's hand, Krishnan couldn't help but think of all of this. Suddenly the monitors started beeping erratically. Anurag pressed the call button and dialed a quick dial on his phone. Suddenly a flurry of nurses and doctors started moving in and out.<br /><br />Mins were gently but firmly moved out of their way. Her heart leaped in her mouth. She could feel it in her gut. It was like this sinking feeling again. The kind she had with mum and dad more than 10 years ago.<br /><br />Suddenly the monitor went blank with a long beep. There was pin-drop silence in the room!<br /><br />©Asmi Uniqus Dec 2022</p>Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-4486465891013408502022-12-05T00:33:00.005-08:002022-12-05T00:47:22.539-08:00His...2 (A long work of Erotica)<p><b> </b></p><p> <span class="ILfuVd" lang="en"><b>Disclaimer and Trigger Warnings</b><br /><br /></span></p><ol style="text-align: left;"><li><span class="ILfuVd" lang="en">Any resemblance with any person living or dead is coincidental. All characters are 18+.</span></li><li><span class="ILfuVd" lang="en">Any
choice of names is random, and not indicative on any caste, religion
etc. The setting is in India, so readers need to NOT PROJECT THEIR
BIASES on my work.</span></li><li><span class="ILfuVd" lang="en">I
write for my pleasure. At my pace. I'm mindful of trigger warnings
where they matter, but I don't overapologize. I am aware of FL limits,
legal limits, boundaries in general.</span></li><li><span class="ILfuVd" lang="en">A
lot of my fictional work is dark and deals with themes of depression,
violence, rough sex, non-consent self-harm, suicide etc. So, if any of
these themes are potentially triggering for you, I request you to please
not read thhe work and focus on self-care.</span></li><li><span class="ILfuVd" lang="en">Apart
from that, I take time to build my stories. The way I want. So, if this
is too harsh, too mild, too little, too much, whine elsewhere. If this
is too much sex, too little sex, too realistic, too unrealistic, too
much plot, too much dialogue, take your judgement / opinion and put it
where it belongs. Unless you're my writing mentor. Because - YKINMK.</span></li></ol><p><span class="ILfuVd" lang="en">________________________________<br /><br /><br />"Come. I'll take you to him." His heart went out to her. His own grief hidden behind that mask of professional politeness. He took her to the room just next to hers and held her close. He didn't want her to panic. He needed her to have a grip on herself right now.<br /><br />Dr. Krishnan had known Dr. Mathur's family for a little more than a decade now. Anurag and Krishnan had become friends in the final year of their degree. He knew Dr. Mathur understood the consequences of the accident. Dr. Mathur understood that his younger brother might not survive these injuries. As the head of the family, perhaps he would also be able to handle and calm down the rest of his family. Krishnan knew that the Mathur family would grieve. For long. But, they would survive.<br /><br />This girl, however? In a family of 5 siblings, she was the youngest and almost 11 years their junior. Anurag was the second eldest brother, and the lifeline she had for the last 10 years since the Mathurs lost their parents. She was only 12 when they passed away in a similar accident. She was with them. She had miraculously survived.<br /><br />She had made multiple attempts on her own life over the next few years. Anurag had been the one to pull her out. His unfathomable love for her, his endless patience, his vigilance.<br /><br />10 years later, the girl had grown into a remarkably intelligent, beautiful, and strong young woman. No one could even imagine the extent of the darkness she had gone through. The only remnants left in the wake of that accident were the scars on her wrists and the way she clung to her brother.<br /><br />But this? Krishnan knew Anurag won't survive. But his baby sister? Will she be able to recover? Will she survive this? Krishnan didn't have any answers.<br /><br />As he held her and walked into Anurag's room, there was a sinking feeling in the pit of his stomach. It was too much of a coincidence to happen to a family and a young girl like this. The Mathurs were a well-respected, well-known, powerful family in the country. All of them had been very respectable doctors for 3 generations now.<br /><br />They owned multiple multi-specialty hospitals. Yet they had kept this hi-tech, yet nondescript facility completely out of the public eye; strictly for family and friends. And then they meet with two accidents, both equally devastating, taking down someone critical to the family, and the businesses. And the survivor was the same in both cases.<br /><br />There was this niggling feeling that Krishnan was unable to shake off. He didn't know what to make of all this. But he was uneasy. Significantly so.<br /><br />He wondered if he was in danger too. Not that he cared. He had no family. The Mathurs had been his family since the word 'go'. It was all the more important that he listened to his intuition.<br /><br />Was there something sinister at play here? He had his suspicions. He also knew who to share this with. He needed to talk to Anurag's elder brother. Dr. Mathur was the only person who Krishnan could trust right now. But this would need to wait.<br /><br />Right now? He needed to deal with Anurag. And his baby sister. Right now, she needed him.<br /><br /><br /></span><span class="ILfuVd" lang="en">©Asmi Uniqus Dec 2022</span></p>Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-37986468298340106792022-12-05T00:31:00.005-08:002022-12-05T00:47:34.330-08:00His...1 (A long work of Erotica)<p> <span class="ILfuVd" lang="en"><b>Disclaimer and Trigger Warnings</b><br /><br /></span></p><ol style="text-align: left;"><li><span class="ILfuVd" lang="en">Any resemblance with any person living or dead is coincidental. All characters are 18+.</span></li><li><span class="ILfuVd" lang="en">Any
choice of names is random, and not indicative on any caste, religion
etc. The setting is in India, so readers need to NOT PROJECT THEIR
BIASES on my work.</span></li><li><span class="ILfuVd" lang="en">I
write for my pleasure. At my pace. I'm mindful of trigger warnings
where they matter, but I don't overapologize. I am aware of FL limits,
legal limits, boundaries in general.</span></li><li><span class="ILfuVd" lang="en">A
lot of my fictional work is dark and deals with themes of depression,
violence, rough sex, non-consent self-harm, suicide etc. So, if any of
these themes are potentially triggering for you, I request you to please
not read thhe work and focus on self-care.</span></li><li><span class="ILfuVd" lang="en">Apart
from that, I take time to build my stories. The way I want. So, if this
is too harsh, too mild, too little, too much, whine elsewhere. If this
is too much sex, too little sex, too realistic, too unrealistic, too
much plot, too much dialogue, take your judgement / opinion and put it
where it belongs. Unless you're my writing mentor. Because - YKINMK.</span></li></ol><p><span class="ILfuVd" lang="en">________________________________</span></p><span class="ILfuVd" lang="en"><br />There was pain. A lot of pain! Searing pain!<br /><br />She couldn't move her left hand. She moved her neck, but was unable to see what was stopping her from moving it. There was nothing. Perhaps she broke her bones. Maybe she was dying. There was another flash of hot, searing pain, and she drifted..in and out.. lots of voices, sounds, an ambulance perhaps somewhere. She saw a glimpse of a white lab coat. "A doctor", she thought. A wave of relief hit her, and she passed out.<br /><br />She woke up and found herself in a hospital. Machines, monitors, IV tubes. It looked foreign. She didn't know hospitals like that existed in India. A kind, friendly face came into her sight, the brown eyes peering into hers. She blinked. She seemed to know this man, but couldn't recognize him. She blinked again.<br /><br />He smiled. Kindly, gently.<br /><br />Even in the hospital, she blushed, just a bit. Her brother's batchmate.<br /><br />Her brother!<br /><br />She panicked. Where was her brother? Where was Anurag???<br /></span><p> </p><p>Dr. Krishnan put his hand on her shoulder gently.<br /><br />"Anurag is alive. He's critical, but he survives. I need to ensure that you're fine before I let you see him. Will you let me do that?"<br /><br />She nodded.<br /><br />"Any aches? Any pains? Except your left elbow that is?", he asked as he poked and prodded her around her right shoulder, arm, her shoulder, her back, her ribs. His hand brushing her right breast accidentally.<br /><br />She blushed but shook her head. Her left elbow was in a caste.<br /><br />"Your joint broke into 6 pieces Mins", he addressed her with her pet name. "There was bone loss. We've operated it, fixed it, it will look normal, but it will never be back to 100% efficiency." Dr. Krishnan gave it as it was. Anurag and Krishnan were both like that. Doctors, friends, brothers, and straight shooters. They said things as they were. Kindly, yet honestly. Always.<br /><br />"Is he stable?" her voice choked.<br /><br />He looked at her keenly as he put his hand out. "Hold my hand and slowly try to get off the bed and stand up", he focused on the task at hand. She sulked but obeyed. She knew better than to argue or snap. She knew from experience, it never worked on the man. She had known him for almost a decade now.<br /><br />"Anything? At all?" He looked at her, concerned. She shook her head. Apart from the pain in the elbow, she felt absolutely alright. Even the anaesthesia had worn off completely.<br /><br />"I am fine. Please. Now tell me. Is he stable? Where is he? I need to see him please!" Her voice choked again, her anxiety finally getting the better of her, eyes welled up.<br /><span class="ILfuVd" lang="en"><br />©Asmi Uniqus Dec 2022<br /></span></p>Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-39359444349449292502019-05-01T02:48:00.000-07:002019-05-20T02:48:59.441-07:00After 10 years, I am not sure if I love him anymore.<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Hi Asmi,</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
We’ve been married together for 10 years. We were love
married to begin with and have successful careers and a great friendship. Our
family and friends think we’re an amazing couple. But after 10 years, I am not
sure if I love him anymore. The sex is infrequent too. We still care for each
other and I feel guilty that I don’t love him the same way as I did once. I
wonder how can I fix this? </div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
Imperfect and ashamed</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
Dear Real-and-beautiful,</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
Yes, I chose that name for you because I think that’s who
you are. Real and honest about how you feel and beautiful on the inside.</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
First off, thank you for acknowledging that something is
amiss. It’s important to acknowledge that something isn’t how it used to be, or
how you would want it to be. However, it is critical for you to resolve the
emotional upheaval your feelings are causing in you.</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
I am sure you already know this, but I will repeat – people
change all the time. So does love. </div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
You’ve loved each other for 10 years. Been with each other,
had arguments, heated debates hopefully, and have made love to each other
passionately, am sure. I do not know if you have children together, but if you
do, then you’ve both crossed that milestone together too. </div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
In the process, you’ve changed. Tremendously. Together and
individually, you as well as your husband have changed. And, so has your love.</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
You see, love comes in multiple forms.</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
When we’re young, it often comes as infatuation. Later
sometime as desire, then as lust, and with a special person or more, as
romance. It comes in the form of affection, care, commitment, giving, intense
sexual attraction. Love also sometimes comes in the form of unhealthy obsession,
manipulation or abuse. Add to it the fact that love and its forms change as
people change. </div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
Is it possible that you might be considering this change as
fading out of the chemistry? Have you spoken to your partner about it yet? Have
you tried to find new ways of reigniting your spark together? Maybe you both
want to take a small vacation together? </div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
Perhaps you just want to book yourselves an OYO for a
weekend getaway, even if in the same city. Or, you might want to explore the
sensual rather than the sexual or the emotional rather than the sensual? Go
learn dancing together or take up running or jogging with each other every evening
and reconnect with each other.</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
While I have listed a few things, you can do to spark and
reignite the love you once shared, let me emphasize again. You both need to
talk first. It is very possible that he doesn’t even feel like your love is
fading. It’s also possible that he also feels the same way and wants to
rediscover your love, but is hesitating in telling you. So the first step is to
buckle up and speak to him gently about it. I’m sure you will discover another
facet of the love you both share. </div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
Much Love,</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
Asmi </div>
</div>
Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-91828077551455658162018-08-15T10:20:00.000-07:002018-11-08T10:21:07.322-08:00The People I meet<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<div class="MsoNormal">
Today, let’s talk a bit about the people I meet. I am
socially extremely active. At one point I was almost a serial dating
enthusiast. That said, I still meet one person outside my family, every day. I
try to meet at least 3 new people a week. I must admit, I have slowed down
much. Over last decade and more, I have met at least 2000 + men. </div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
The truth is that I end up meeting men lot more than I meet
women. This is true for multiple reasons. In this post, I will try and share
some insight into how and what platforms do I meet people from; what kind of
people; why more men than women; and some common categories in which these
people can be classified.</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
I meet people both online and offline. I am a very
extrovert, easy to approach and communicative person. Or, so I have been told.
I end up talking to my autorickshaw puller (some of you’re rolling your eyes
right now). I do that as a rule. I have learnt over time that the road side
fruit seller, the grocery store keeper, the server at the restaurant, the maid
that cleans up for the next-door neighbours, are some of the most insightful
people I have met. </div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
When I say I meet one new person a day, it means, I sit
down, have a heart to heart, coffee or a meal with them and see what can be
done to drive value to their life, or for that matter, mine. I have done that
with men from tinder, men and women I came to know at my poetry open mics, candidates
I interviewed but didn’t hire, meet up groups, my local Buddhism congregation,
my social media acquaintances, temples, parks, dating apps, professional networks
and even anonymous apps like Whisper for that matter.</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
My rule is simple. There are stories to be told, stories
waiting to be heard. I want to be one of the people doing that. </div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
Do I talk to all these people about sexuality? Not
necessarily, but in some or the other form, yes. In some or the other form. My
maid talks to me of her reproductive health. The auto guys talk to me about
their families and I divert the conversation to their wives and other women
folk in their family. The direction of the conversation usually goes to their
daughters, safety of women, feminism, communication, sexual discourse and more. </div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
My tinder and other dates are invariably at some point
intrigued and interested in my lifestyle. 99.9% days I come back alone. I am
not really a hookup person. I do hope though, that I leave them with some food
for thought. I certainly come back with enough. </div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
I usually pay for my share of the coffee. I do not drink
more than twice a year, and certainly not with strangers. Once on my birthday
and once when something major life-changing event happens. Otherwise I do not
drink. Period. There are very few people who can convince me for a drink.</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
I meet more men than woman because honestly, I do not choose
that. Most women on tinder, do not swipe back on me :P Heck, their settings
make it impossible for me to even see them. I work with an all-women’s team at
one of the clients. Rest of the clients are mostly men, because I work with
smaller businesses and usually I work only with the founder / promoter levels. </div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
Apart
from that, the other social avenues usually have a larger ratio of men. My
schoolmates are dispersed around the country and are mostly married and mothers,
so not as easily available to interact as I would like. I do associate with
women on the Sheroes apps and their whatsapp groups and through couchsurfing
and in my various spiritual / religious congregations, but again the numbers
are few. Not something I control, really.</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
Classification of people, is a subject best dealt in detail
of its own. So, let’s address that in another post someday, I guess <span style="font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-char-type: symbol-ext; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-symbol-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji";">😊</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
Till then, happy reading and traveling on your paths.</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
Much love,</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
Asmi<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
© Asmi Uniqus 2018</div>
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Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-87549953004854889252018-07-25T11:39:00.000-07:002018-11-05T11:40:18.243-08:00Who is Asmi<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Some of you have read a bit about me here and there. Others
have asked me questions. Some others have given me enough attention and have tried
to read my work, my posts and figure out a bit about me. So, I have finally
decided to come out to an extent and write this short post. I will try and answer
some of the common questions that readers and acquaintances or or new BDSM
enthusiasts tend to ask me.</div>
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<b>1. Am I a woman?</b><br />
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Yes, I am a biological woman, who is very happy to identify as one. In that sense I am not queer. That said, I have experimented with my bisexuality, so technically that makes me queer. My preference is for my heterosexuality and I am naturally attracted to men. That said, if I do meet very interesting women, women who are capable and experienced Dominants in their behaviour, practice and meet all other parameters emotionally, intellectually, ethically, socially etc. I may consider them as potential partners.<br />
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<b>2. Am I single?</b><br />
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Yes, I have never been married. I am a polyamorous person and I identify as what is commonly called as solo-poly. Which means an individual who does not practice polyamory as a couple, but as an independent individual. This means that at a given point, I may or may not have a partner with whom I am romantically attached.<br />
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<b>3. Am I looking?</b><br />
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At this moment, I am not actively looking. I am happy to meet people and if I really like someone, I am not shy in telling them. However, like every one else, I am also selective about who I share my intimacy, emotional and sexual energy with. At this moment, my work, my projects and my writing take a priority. This priority is superseded by only my health or my immediate family.<br />
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That said, I am not close to the idea of a mature person and their companionship, where I feel that both of us will be able to support each other’s growth as individuals and partners.<br />
<b><br />4. Am I a professional Dominatrix or a professional Submissive?</b><br />
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No. My bills are paid through very mainstream writing. I write business content for corporate houses, NGOs, CXOs and marketing / digital agencies. I also help startups with content and communications strategy. Due to my previous work experience in operations, I sometimes do consult smaller businesses or coach individuals on how to streamline their business or professional performance.<br />
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I do coach people on the deeper aspects of BDSM on the side, where I accept students / mentees extremely selectively. I do charge for my time, but the objective is simply to make trainees take the curriculum seriously, because I take a lot of time to structure personalized, customized courses.</div>
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<b>5. Do I meet people?</b><br />
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Yes, very happily. I am generally very happy to meet new people and see what value can we drive in the world together. I meet people through all sorts of online and offline platforms. That said, I do respect some social and ethical boundaries that I have designed for myself over 12 years of social and intimate interactions with people. Like all of you, I do not like drama in my life and so I do tend to block a lot of people too. It doesn’t make me very happy but I do it when required.<br />
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<b>6. Am I a bitch / slut / whore / yada yada?</b><br />
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The fact that I wrote this question here and chose not to dignify it with an answer, is response enough 😊</div>
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Happy reading and do share your thoughts,</div>
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Asmi</div>
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© Asmi Uniqus 2018 </div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-prop-change: "Anupama Garg" 20180708T0543;">
<span style="mso-fareast-language: EN-IN;">“You claim to be an empowered woman and yet
you claim that you want other people to boss you around. Who would really want
to spend all their time trying to tell you what to do. Grow up and take charge
of your life. Why do you want to spend all your life being someone’s slave?”</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-prop-change: "Anupama Garg" 20180708T0543;">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-prop-change: "Anupama Garg" 20180708T0543;">
<span style="mso-fareast-language: EN-IN;">_________________________</span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-prop-change: "Anupama Garg" 20180708T0543;">
<span style="mso-fareast-language: EN-IN;"> </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-prop-change: "Anupama Garg" 20180708T0543;">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-prop-change: "Anupama Garg" 20180708T0543;">
<span style="mso-fareast-language: EN-IN;">Erm…. Thanks for asking me that question. I really
wish your words were laced with less judgement and assumptions. Your question
actually tells me much more about you, rather than any of my Dominant partners. </span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-prop-change: "Anupama Garg" 20180708T0543;">
<span style="mso-fareast-language: EN-IN;">First things first, I am totally in charge
of my life. I eat what I like, I exercise based on what my doctor and trainer recommend,
I buy what I can afford, I am well-read, well-educated and very gainfully
employed, I live by myself, have wonderful relationships with my family,
friends and chosen partner/s at any given point. So, my submission isn’t reflective
of my incapability to take charge of my life </span><span style="font-family: "Calibri",sans-serif !msorm; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin !msorm; mso-bidi-font-family: Mangal !msorm; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin !msorm;"><span style="font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-char-type: symbol-ext; mso-fareast-language: EN-IN; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-symbol-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji";">😊</span></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-prop-change: "Anupama Garg" 20180708T0543;">
<span style="mso-fareast-language: EN-IN;">Now that we have THAT out of our way, let’s
talk about the rest of it. I trust my long-term partners with greater
responsibility. That’s one of the reasons I submit. The second reason I submit
to someone is, that we have both taken time to know each other very well, not
just in the bedroom but also outside it. We MUST have intellectual, emotional,
social, and financial compatibility before I agree to even ‘consider’
submitting to them.</span></div>
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<span style="mso-fareast-language: EN-IN;">Third, I am happy doing things for other
people, people I love. Just like I hope you are. Only that my demeanour is
submissive rather than obliging. Fourth, I have taken more than a decade of my
life and worked on myself, in order to be able to fully embrace my submissive
desires and nature. It is not lightly that I submit. It is not to every Tom, Dick,
Harry, or Heena, Neena, Karina that I submit.</span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-prop-change: "Anupama Garg" 20180708T0543;">
<span style="mso-fareast-language: EN-IN;">In some of my write-ups I have mentioned how
my Dominant partner/s have brought positivity, empowerment and enrichment to my
life. At some places perhaps, I have also written a bit about what value my partners
think, I have added to their lives. I might write more on that later.</span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-prop-change: "Anupama Garg" 20180708T0543;">
<span style="mso-fareast-language: EN-IN;">All of that said, I am neither a doormat, nor
a wall flower. I ensure that any Dominant partner I go around with is someone who
understands and respects my own accomplishments in life. I do realize that it
is a difficult and paradoxical concept for most people to reconcile with.</span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-prop-change: "Anupama Garg" 20180708T0543;">
<span style="mso-fareast-language: EN-IN;">Further, Dominants don’t just go around bossing
people. Just like me, my partners also work on their self-awareness. They work
on as many sentiments, personal issues and skills as I do. When I serve them,
they also have a responsibility to care for me, to protect me, to ensure I don’t
overexert myself. My partner/s take it seriously.</span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-prop-change: "Anupama Garg" 20180708T0543;">
<span style="mso-fareast-language: EN-IN;">Remember what I do is neither under societal
pressure, nor because of coercion. It is with another consenting adult like any
other ‘regular’ relationship. Our power exchange is not parasitic, co-dependent
or dysfunction like in a lot of erotica. </span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="mso-prop-change: "Anupama Garg" 20180708T0543;">
<span style="mso-fareast-language: EN-IN;">One of the good ideas might be to actually
connect with some people offline and see how and why they function. Some gentle
questions asking them what they do, how they relate with their partners, what
makes them do what they do, is a good way to begin. </span></div>
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<b><span style="mso-fareast-language: EN-IN;">BDSM if done right in a consensual set up with the right people is an act of love. As much as any other display is, specially on the Valentines' day. </span></b></div>
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<span style="mso-fareast-language: EN-IN;">Hope this clears some confusion.</span></div>
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<span style="mso-fareast-language: EN-IN;">Asmi</span></div>
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<span style="mso-fareast-language: EN-IN;">© Asmi Uniqus 2018 </span></div>
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Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-79368191703941416172018-01-10T15:45:00.000-08:002018-07-07T17:34:43.440-07:00Giving Pain to Someone I respect<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12.0pt;">Dear
Asmi,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12.0pt;">I really respect
and love my partner a lot. Not just that, all my life I have taken pride in
being a chivalrous man. How can I hurt a woman, that too a woman I love? I find
it a very conflicting idea that I have desires of hurting my partner on
purpose. Can you please help me understand how this works?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12.0pt;">Concerned
and Curious</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12.0pt;">_________________________________________</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12.0pt;">Dear Concerned and Curious,</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12.0pt;">Thank you for writing in. It's a very important question that bothers a lot of people. Much rightly so.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12.0pt;">BDSM relationships are
(or are expected and ought to be) all about consent and communication. When I
say consent, please understand that I’m talking of notional consent and not
necessarily legal. In the legal purview, a lot of explicitly consensual, risk
aware and safe activities might be penalizable. Consent however, is a subject
for separate treatment. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12.0pt;">For the sake of answering your question, I am going
to safely assume that you have a lover / partner who has voluntarily consented
to receiving pain. Also, that your partner has done this with the understanding
that they will be able to stop you by the use of a safe word when they need to.
I am also assuming that you have the ability to stop, both when you hear them
using the safeword, and also, when you feel the need to use your safeword (yes,
Doms need a safeword too).</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12.0pt;">With that out of the way, let’s address the actual
question. How can one hurt someone they respect and love? To begin with, let’s
consider why would someone want to receive or give pain. Pain is a bodily
sensation like any other. Imagine people who take up kickboxing as a sport? Or
those gym rats? Every inch of their body hurts and yet, they enjoy it. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12.0pt;">What I’m trying to say is that one needs to get rid
of the notion that pain is necessarily bad. I’m sure you’ve yourself experienced
some of that sweet, mild, pain yourself. Pain can be purposeful, enriching and
rewarding when mixed with other sensations. When done correctly, pain as
associated with the BDSM spectrum can feel very pleasurable, even though it
doesn’t have to necessarily lead to coitus. The body’s chemical reactions to
the stimulus can be similar to how one feels during meditation or orgasm.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12.0pt;">Most of
the times, people who engage in any sort of BDSM activity do it because they
are trying to fulfil a fantasy, or achieve a certain psychological state, hormonal
rush or feel grounded. For some people it can even be therapeutic. I do not know
what it is for your partner and you specifically. However, if your partner
really wants to explore something kinky and fun, do you consider it wrong to do
something they might find pleasurable? </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12.0pt;">Everything
said and done, BDSM isn’t everyone’s cup of chai </span><span style="font-family: "segoe ui emoji" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.0pt;">😊</span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12.0pt;"> For some people it works instantly,
for others it’s an acquired taste and for a lot of people, it simply doesn’t
work. Trust me, all those possibilities are totally OK. It’s entirely up to you
to decide whether or not you want to participate in these activities. However,
it is VERY important to be honest with your partner if you do not want to
participate in BDSM activities that they want to explore. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12.0pt;">If you do
consider trying things out before making up your mind, my only suggestion is
that keep your mind open. Give it your best shot (No, the best shot isn’t how
it is often done in porn movies). The best shot is the sincere desire to try, it’s
not about hitting harder or playing rougher etc. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12.0pt;">Remember,
if you make up your mind about trying this, you’re doing it for yourself and
your partner and the experience WILL change you. You may be unsure in the
beginning, so it’s a good idea to start slow. It’s also very important to
educate yourself and your partner about safety, consent, communication both in
and out of the session. Another good idea is to find someone who has done some
things before and can give you practical tips. </span></div>
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Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-29246154670663082192017-12-07T01:37:00.000-08:002017-12-27T16:28:43.531-08:00Myth Buster 3 - BDSM is all about toys and props<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<b>Nope.</b><br />
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Unlike the common misconception projected by the infamous movies, books and the horde of porn available online, BDSM is NOT about props and toys.Most people think that BDSM cannot be practiced in India because toys and props are not available and hence it is impossible for people to practise BDSM in India.<br />
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This calls for the busting of multiple myths. <b>First being that BDSM is all about toys. </b>No, it's not. BDSM is about the mindset that you bring to the relationship and the dynamics you share with your partner. It is about bondage, irrespective of what you tie the other person with, as long as you do not damage them.<br />
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It is irrelevant whether your bonds are those of satin ribbons or those of jute ropes. In fact, it shouldn't be surprising to discover that the most intense bonds are those of the mind and the heart. The bonds of the D/s mindset and the word that drives the bond between two people.<br />
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Same applies for implements of pain, Even if one is not an emotional sadist or a emotional pain slut, it is very much possible to hurt someone without the conventional BDSM implements. A plain, bare-bottom, bare-hand spanking is as effective as any other implement.<br />
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<b>The second myth to break is that toys are not available in India. </b>The fact is that yes, the fancy-looking, over-priced, over-rated toys and implements are not available. That said, there are sexual health and wellness websites which do have toys for sale in India.<br />
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However, it is always possible and easy to acquire and use the simple, domestic substitutes for toys. However, before you do that, there are two things that you need to have -<br />
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<li>The ability of lateral thinking in which you can imagine multiple uses of a certain object than those that are obvious.</li>
<li>Detailed information on the side effects and the safety protocol of using different objects on human body, For instance jute and nylon ropes create different kinds of impact and may cause differential damage to the person who has been tied. </li>
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<b> Some substitute toys are as follows:</b><br />
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<li>A lot of regular body massagers can be used as a substitute for vibes.</li>
<li>Table tennis racquets, kitchen spatulas can be easily used as a substitute for paddles.</li>
<li>Ribbons, old neckties and scarves can also be used as easy substitutes for ropes.</li>
<li>Physiotherapy bands are another great tool for safe and DIY bondage that's even easy to get out of. </li>
<li>Floggers can be made at home.</li>
<li>Riding crops are easily available.</li>
<li>Processed tree branches are an easy substitute to canes. </li>
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And this - is just the beginning of ideas. For this post, I will leave you at this. Do write back with some kinky ideas of your own.<br />
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Much Love,<br />
© Asmi Uniqus 2017</div>
Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-68043776364451765512017-09-06T11:46:00.000-07:002018-11-05T11:00:12.409-08:00Myth Buster 2 - A sub is a victim<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
As a seasoned submissive, I am often asked what drives me towards submission. Also, when potential partners approach me, they tend to think that I am a victim and a weak woman, so I need to be either protected or that I can be exploited. These assumptions couldn't be farther from the truth.<br />
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The truth is, a submissive is not a victim. They are not being taken advantage of. Sure, there are women and men who are vulnerable. A submissive is often very aware of why and who are they with. The fact is, as a submissive, we don't need to be saved from some imaginary abusive dominant. We fully realize that it's a big, bad world out there.<br />
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The choice to indulge in any activity where we welcome and embrace pain at the hands of a certain sadist, doesn't make us masochists victims against our will.<br />
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People, we value your concern, believe us we do. But remember,our keywords are <b>Safe, Sane and Consensual.</b><br />
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<b>Just because we do not conform to some of your rules and norms, doesn't mean that we cease to be well-informed, consenting adults who understand what we're getting into.</b><br />
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I do not deny that there are so many battered women and children across the country that it is easy to feel specially worried about the submissive types. However, if you ask us multiple times and we tell you we are fine, please don't nag.<br />
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If there are no obvious signs of distress and / abuse, please do not try to convince us that we don't know what we might be getting into. Believe it or not, we sub types are actually far more efficient at recognizing sociopaths. Let me put it this way :)<br />
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Let me reiterate again...<b> BDSM is consensual. Whether SSC or RACK, we understand the risks.</b><br />
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We love and appreciate the compassion you send our way. However, for a lot of us, these are neither kinky games, not fucked up minds, but a choice about the way we want to live our relationships. As long as you can respect it as a preference for black coffee over brown, we'll get along, just fine :)<br />
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Much love,<br />
Asmi<br />
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© Asmi Uniqus 2017 <br />
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Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-74379993764535080642017-09-02T11:56:00.000-07:002017-11-27T12:33:03.008-08:00100 Rules of Tough Love - Rule 2<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<b>Rule 2 - Don't Do it For Rebound aka Velcro Collars</b><br />
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D/s is intense. One of the reasons a lot of Ds practitioners are seen in what we call 'velcro collars' is because they do collars while still in rebound. I mean, let's face it people; breaking up from simple vanilla relationships is so frekkin difficult, this is an entirely different league we're talking about.<br />
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Think of it. This woman or man knew your kinks, how much pain you liked or disliked to get turned on, whether or you enjoy being tied up, or being called names, or blindfolds. They didn't judge you, they didn't call you a freak. In public or in the intimate space that you shared, as your partner, they accepted you for what otherwise would get you labled as a pervert.<br />
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And you hope to hop on to a new train before you've even fully gotten off the first one?<br />
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<b><i>Collars are to be respected my friend. In the Indian context think of a 'MangalSutra'. Would you wear anyone's mangalsutra randomly? Would you put it on any neck randomly? Would you exchange rings or garlands with anyone? If not, why would you do that with collars?</i></b><br />
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Just because it was a BDSM relationship, it doesn't have to be causal? It doesn't have to be all about kinky sex or play sessions? It is important to heal before you meet the next submissive or the next Mr. Grey.<br />
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As a submissive, when I am in a BDSM-centric relationship, I trust my Dominant more than I do when I'm dating a regular guy. I obey my Dom much more than a lover. A Dominant isn't my next tinder date. A dominant 'AT TIMES' even has the ability to restrict me from watching TV or pleasuring myself. Does a Boyfriend have that privilege? Well, certainly not.<br />
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However, this also means that my bond with a D/s partner is way intense as compared to a lover. This also means, that before entering a new relationship, I need to ensure that I am fully over the previous one.<br />
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As a Dominant on the other hand, I am responsible for my submissive's well being. If my anger, my hurt, my boredom is what is driving a session, do I consider myself emotionally fully caring and responsible for my submissive? Well, I can only speak for myself. And no, at such times, I would rather refrain from any activity that gives me a high, including BDSM.<br />
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It's really simple. When in a break up, don't rebound, don't drink, don't do BDSM untill you relatively heal. Same goes for the partners you pick as well, so as you are not set up.<br />
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Remember, some people's genuine kink is vulnerability. Others, abuse it. Some cannot stand it. You may end up with the wrong partner and miss out on the right one, if you do not allow yourself to settle down.<br />
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So hide in a corner if you have to. Socialize with friends if you have to. Heck, even take a break from all sorts of BDSM activity, including reading, watching porn, munches, socials, anything else.<br />
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<b>First ? Heal! Tough Love Comes later, my love :)</b><br />
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To those of you who are healing...<br />
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Much Love,<br />
© Asmi Uniqus 2017</div>
Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-1798763913430938012017-09-01T11:27:00.000-07:002017-11-27T11:51:25.615-08:00100 Rules of Tough Love - Rule 1<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<b>Let's Look at something else as well. What are the rules for Tough Love? What are the rules to find BDSM relationships, to be in them, to nurture and fulfill them and yourself? Well, I am trying to list 100 of them. Here they begin:</b><br />
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<b>Rule Number 1 - Be Authentic, Be Yourself</b><br /><br />Authenticity is one of the major differences between vanilla and BDSM relationships. In fact, I must say it's one of the major differences between fulfilling and non-fulfilling relationships. Just because a lot of literature, porn as well as people try to project BDSM as roleplay, it is no reason to be anything else but yourself when you're looking for a BDSM relationship. The fact is that BDSM and tough love has as many shades as people who practice it.<br />
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Let me ask you this. Do you even know where you are on BDSM spectrum? If yes, great. If no, then find out. It's not IMPOSSIBLE. It's tough, oh hell, yes, it is tough! Takes a lot of effort, a lot of time, a lot of sincerity. However, it certainly is not impossible.<br />
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If you're confused, acknowledge that you're confused. Being confused isn't a sin. Being confused isn't a crime. It's just a state of being. It's OK.<br />
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The risk with being anything but yourself is that the other person may take you for more seasoned than you may be, or less seasoned than you maybe. In BDSM, this misreading can have direct consequences on your health and safety.<br />
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What if someone took you to be a heavy masochist because you weren't being your scared, self and then ended up giving you more pain than you could handle?<br />
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What if someone took you for a naive idiot and tried to take you for a ride, or violate your consent by trying to manipulate you under the pretext of consensual non-consent?<br />
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What when you are misled and end up trusting a person because they lied about their experience, only to know that you agreed to do breath play with someone who could send you to coma?<br />
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So for your own sake and that of your partner/s, please <b>Be Yourself.</b><br />
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With love,<br />
© Asmi Uniqus 2017<br />
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Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-74974748255433709512017-08-23T17:21:00.001-07:002017-09-05T10:06:53.497-07:00How did I discover kink?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I was 22 when I discovered BDSM. I’m 33 now. It’s been 11
years. However, I was 16 when I had first used the word submissive for myself. That
makes it almost 17 years. But was all of it about BDSM? Well, no. Was it about
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To be honest, I never realized that submission could mean sexual
submission too. I thought submission was about pleasing people. I wanted to
make my parents, teachers, seniors, husband (I dreamed of finding one at that
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I was very sure that my submission was about being a docile
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I turned to spirituality. I thought, maybe submission was
about being the servant of the servants of God. However, I refused to be
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A late bloomer as I was, at 22, I broke up from my first
long distance relationship. I know some of you are probably smirking right now.
Perhaps I would as well, if this was the story of another person. At some
level, I smirk even today when I hear people saying that online role plays are
very meaningful for them. You see, I am not liberated enough yet to not judge
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This breakup came at a crucial point in life. I had moved to
the capital of the country from a tier 3 town in one of the Hindi speaking
states. I was changing careers. Delhi was already a cultural shock.Looked like I was always pretending to be someone I was not. Always wearing a mask.</div>
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Thankfully, I, a childhood loner found some friends that I
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place. She introduced me to watching porn hoping it would help me with my
breakup and heartache. Little did she know that my partner and I had never had
sex.</div>
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No, I didn’t pretend to be experienced. But I didn’t come
out clean with being in a long-distance relationship rather than otherwise. D,
if you’re reading this, I am sorry I didn’t come clean. However, I am not sorry
you introduced me to porn. Not, the least bit.</div>
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<br /></div>
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Link to link, I landed on kink. That’s what happened to me
on my first porn website trip. Result? I was shocked, I was stunned. How could
there be women who wanted to be tied up or beaten like that and still look so
happy?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>How was it possible to find
pleasure in pain? Add to it the fact that I had zero experience of sex. </div>
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Result? I was scared. I was disgusted. I was curious as
hell. I didn’t enjoy watching that ‘stuff’. I still call it ‘stuff’ sometimes
when I’m not thinking consciously about my words. </div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
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So, once the initial shock faded off in a few days, I started reading. I read for almost 3 years. Read
everything I could lay my hands upon. I went to yahoo chat rooms till I found other
people who could point me to more reading material. I was no longer shocked, disgusted or anything else. This, my dear reader is how
I discovered kink. </div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
These 3 years were the loneliest years of my life. They were
the most intense years of my life in some ways. These years unravelled life in
front of me in a way that had never happened before. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
11 years later, I am here, unravelling my journey for you.
Not as a way to propagate a lifestyle, not with a desire to convert anyone to
kink. But, as a voice of solidarity. I understand what it is to feel lonely, I
understand what it is to pretend to be someone you are not. I understand what
it is to live a life of duplicity, hiding from everyone, including yourself.
Thankfully I no longer have to do it. </div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
On that note stay tuned. </div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
With love,</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
Asmi</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
© Asmi Uniqus 2017 </div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">(Image source - https://i.pinimg.com/originals/3b/d2/0b/3bd20b26f1517442b4b612296e23f1d8.jpg)</span></div>
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Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-21543849809143587572017-08-13T16:29:00.000-07:002017-12-08T11:48:34.161-08:00Myth Buster 1 - A kinky woman is a slut<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<b>No, she is not. She is not a slut, she is not easy, she's not a freak and she's not weak.</b><br />
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A kinky woman is just that. A 'kinky' woman. Just like a kinky man is not a perv, just like he's not a predator most times, just like he's not necessarily desperate. Similarly, a kinky woman is not a slut. She's not some kind of nymphomaniac who likes to fuck all the time, or any random guy she meets.<br />
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<b>Where can you find a kinky woman?</b><br />
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<b>Anywhere. </b>You can find her pretty much anywhere. In a work place, at a party, on one of your dating apps, in your college, amidst your friends. She could be the woman living next door and she could be a doctor or a lawyer or a teacher for all you know.<br />
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<b>Does a Kinky woman always know she's kinky?</b><br />
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Nope, not always. <b>However, it is not your responsibility to assume to teach all women kinkiness. </b>Unless you're a kinkster, unless you're dating a woman, please follow the basic courtesy rules your mom taught you about approaching women. Please do not presume that just because a woman has read 50 shades of grey or watched 'Lipstick under my Burkah', she's a kinky woman. The probability is always 50 % you see?<br />
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<b>So, how do you approach a kinky woman?</b><br />
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If you have to ask this question, there's something severely wrong with your inter-gender interaction skills. You've forgotten the basic lessons in courtesy mum taught you. Or maybe, she didn't get time to teach you. Afterall, we Indians often don't ask our parents on how to approach a guy / girl sexually.<br />
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So <b>rule of thumb - </b>you treat her with respect. You do not assume that a woman is kinky to begin with, just because she's on tinder, or on a kink platform or on a kink website, or because she discussed it in a truth or dare game. <b>Don't assume, ask respectfully.</b><br />
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Even if she IS kinky, self-proclaimed, proven or otherwise, she may NOT be interested in you. <b>Don't take her for granted.</b> Not all kinksters are poly (we'll talk about that soon), not all kinky women are sluts, not all kinksters are despos or nymphos. So, if she says a no, BACK OFF! A sexually aware woman saying a no, is more aware of her desires than a presumptuous prick is. So, don't be that prick.<br />
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<b>Bitter Much?</b><br />
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Did you feel my tone was caustic? Well, yes it was to an extent. Trust me, it's not because I'm a snob, but because some men do NOT understand a no unless a woman raises her voice. Apparently their inflated egos can't accept it.<br />
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If however, you are not a man of the above type, you have my advance apologies and a hope that you will look deeper into my intention.<br />
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On a side note, I do hope you will be able to connect with some amazing women who are willing to experiment with kink.<br />
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Stay well and play safe!<br />
Asmi<br />
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© Asmi Uniqus 2017 <br />
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Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-66423165128560671732017-05-06T19:42:00.003-07:002017-08-08T21:23:10.108-07:00BDSM Glossary - 1<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Since there are many questions around jargon and terminology and since am such a good girl for wanting to answer these questions, here's another series of posts on BDSM Glossary.<br />
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Bondage - Bondage is the first jargon in the entire BDSM acronym. Bondage is about binding someone. Could be mental, emotional, physical or various combinations of these.<br />
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Since there are many questions around jargon and terminology and since am such a good girl for wanting to answer these questions, here's another series of posts on BDSM Glossary.<br />
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<b>Bondage - </b>Bondage is the first jargon in the entire BDSM acronym. Bondage is about binding and restraining someone. It could be mental, emotional, physical or various combinations of these.<br />
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Bondage, or for that matter, any activity in BDSM can be classified as mental as well as physical. From a practitioner's POV, the mental games are sufficiently risky to be taking them casually. More so, because they can have impact on the day to day life. For instance, if someone wants to do hypnotic bondage, they better be trained as a hypnotist, rather than experimenting with another's mind.</div>
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Frankly, mental bondage is more of a lifestyle choice and a risky one ta that. Not to be taken lightly, one should practice it only with seasoned and trusted partners.</div>
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On the other hand, physical bondage is usually a kink for most people. There are lots of tools that people use for physical bondage. Silk scarves, hand cuffs, ankle cuffs, hog ties, ropes, harnesses. Sometimes people even use saran wraps, tapes, tie bands etc. One needs to be conscious when indulging in bondage to not cut off blood flow or breath.</div>
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Some of the bondage is also done for artistic and aesthetic pleasure. One of such Japanese styles of rope bondage is called the Shibari. A lot of Shibari practitioners find it meditative.<br />
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Shibari is used to create many artistic patterns like corsets, clothing, feet bondage, or for typing the body in different poses and forms.<br />
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This post isn't a very detailed and exhaustive post. Ideally, bondage is a subject good enough for independent treatment in a small book. However, I do hope, this kind of takes you through the very basics.<br />
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Till the next post, be well and play safe,<br />
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Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-12877313398507297852017-05-04T16:03:00.000-07:002017-08-08T21:23:45.443-07:00What do people do in BDSM ?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
So the most frequent question I get asked is - what exactly does it mean when you say you practice BDSM? Do you have rough sex? Do you have kinky sex? Do you beat people? Do you get beaten? Do you role play? Do you sleep with many people? Do you do Orgies? Do you.......<br />
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And I silently pray that people would calm down just a bit and breathe :) Just like I do. Yes! I breathe in BDSM :) I laugh, I cry, I smile, I weep, I serve, I am taken care of, I get hurt, I hurt, I enjoy, I have fun, and more. But more importantly, I live! I breathe!<br />
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However, the euphemisms aside, let's see what all can a session mean. Also, what does a session certainly NOT mean. There are two ways of approaching the subject.<br />
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1. What does a BDSM session mean in general?<br />
2. What does a BDSM session mean for me personally?<br />
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I will like to begin by saying a BDSM session means what you want it to mean as long as the activities are a part of Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism and Masochism. For a lot of people BDSM session also means kinky sex with fetishes.<br />
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Since BDSM is so personal, it may not make a lot of sense if I talk only of my perspective. Afterall, what it means for me, is only one side of the story. So, I will share more about this question on a generic note and let's see, some of the things a BDSM session can mean.<br />
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A session is the time spent together in an intimate / semi - intimate / public setting between two people who identify as BDSM practitioners. This could be sexual or not, public or private. This could include pain, bondage, discipline, sex, or neither.<br />
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<b>Any activity that falls under the spectrum </b>of Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism and Masochism can be a part of a BDSM session. By extension, any kinks and fetishes that enhance sexual pleasure may also be a part of a session.<br />
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Well, it's not. The mindset is what's different. The activities may or may not differ. You may cuddle up with your boy friend, or you may cuddle up with your Dom. Your Dom may be a guy or a girl. You may have sex with your boyfriend, or may work out with a friend or may indulge in flogging with your sadist, or may let your bondage top tie you up, or may let your Dominant order you around. None of them are honestly different in my opinion on the surface.<br />
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<b>The difference is in how it makes you feel and what activities interest you. If it's plain 'vanilla' missionary sex or a normal workout, it's a vanilla activity. If it's an activity around BD, Ds or Sm, it's BDSM.</b><br />
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Feel free to read, comment, discuss. I'd love to hear your thoughts and answer questions the best I can.<br />
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Till the next post.<br />
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Be well and play safe,<br />
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Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-44838284257734082852017-05-02T15:27:00.003-07:002017-08-08T21:25:24.385-07:00Is it all fiction or do you really practice BDSM?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
So, one of the most common questions that I am addressing these days is - Is it all fiction? Do you really practice BDSM or are you just writing about it ? How is it that in India you can practice BDSM? How did you manage to find a partner? What did you do with them?<br />
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I am going to try answering some of these questions. Others, I won't for reasons of privacy of other people, but some of these questions are very pertinent and need to be talked about and discussed.<br />
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No, I do not write pure fiction. Sure my style is that of a story teller because I have to protect people's identities, including my own. However, does that mean, I am narrating erotica? Well, no.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">A similar question my father asked me was - the books you've written, are they based on your experiences or on research? My response was - both. It was given in a serious tone, because it was dad I was speaking to. Thankfully also, he didn't probe into details. </span></blockquote>
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However, I'm sure you realize on this basis, how serious I am about what message I send out in this universe because I know I will reap the same. I write authentic, I get to read authentic :)<br />
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With that, my only wish is that I find it in me to continue on my own path for self-awareness, growth, submission, strength and may everyone find their path too :)<br />
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Till the next time, stay well and play safe!<br />
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Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-71198458506381682312017-04-20T22:50:00.002-07:002017-08-09T05:54:58.785-07:00It's NOT OK to ping a BDSM Practitioner's friends on facebook<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
So recently, someone followed me to my blog through my tinder profile and then they reached my facebook profile. So far, so good. They pinged me, trying to tell me how they are a GREAT REAL NO LIMITS master. When politely told off that there's nothing like no limits, they choose to ping every woman on my profile and ask them if they are a BDSM submissive.<br />
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It is NOT OK. It is called desperate behavior.<br />
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<li><b>BDSM is NOT an excuse for harassing people and their friends.</b></li>
<li><b>BDSM is NOT an excuse for stalking women.</b></li>
<li><b>BDSM practitioners are NOT necessarily easy lays.</b></li>
<li><b>Women who practice BDSM are not necessarily cheap, easy, desperate or interested.</b></li>
<li><b>Women who say a no, do NOT mean a yes.</b></li>
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Here's one screenshot. If other friends provide more, I'm going to name and shame this person more. Because high time people understand that BDSM practitioners are not freaks, we are different and we <b>DO NOT endorse</b> jerk behavior.<br />
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Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-87230460314095919762017-04-06T16:32:00.000-07:002017-08-09T05:58:40.545-07:00Safe Call<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
So first off, let me share a bit about what is a safe call.<br />
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<b>What is a Safe Call?</b><br />
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A safe call is a trusted person, I will call before I go for a session with a new partner. 'New' is what I define 'new'. For instance, I prefer to listen to my gut, but the first 3 sessions with anyone in my life are arranged with safe calls.<br />
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My safe call is a friend who is not going to be busy that day, or who I trust with my life. Someone I know will dump anything and rescue me, should I send them an SOS warning.<br />
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Remember, safe call is not the same as the 'safe word'. It does not mean that I scream 'red' and my Dominant will stop doing the activity they are doing. Safe call is my rescue plan, my emergency exit from a session, my backup in case a Dom faints and I am tied, a friend who knows how frequently to check me, the location where I am (it could very well be my own house, his / her house or a hotel), the duration I am going to be there for. <b>Most importantly my safe call WILL KNOW who I am with.</b><br />
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<b>Challenges with a Safe Call:</b><br />
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<li>You really need to trust this person with your life.</li>
<li>Your play partner may not be comfortable with someone else knowing about them.</li>
<li>Your play partner may not even understand the significance of a safe call.</li>
<li>Your play partner may simply refuse to play without a safe call.</li>
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<li>This is why it is important to make friends in the scene first and play later. There are always, kind, responsible and compassionate kinksters who will be willing to become your safe calls. <b>This is like telling my best friend that I am going for a tinder date with a stranger in a hotel room.</b></li>
<li>Then, they've got a problem. I would say, see the red flags and run. No man in this world is an island. <b>Believe me, I know that it's difficult for most people to share or have the details of their intimate escapades with a third party. </b>However, if they do not respect your concerns, then will they really respect your consent?</li>
<li>Another red flag! This is easy to work with though. Assuming, your partner is willing to talk, learn, discuss, consider and eventually practice.</li>
<li>Then <b>DON'T PLAY WITH THEM. Simple!</b> I do not remember how many people have I refused because they just refused to see the logic or denied to do something about it even when they saw the logic.</li>
<li>Not true! It simply means that you trust a tried and tested friend as a backup option. BDSM play is not about ego tussles, competitions and insecurities. It is about responsibility, communication, respect and safe practices, just like any other dynamic. If your partner has trust issues, you need to sit down and talk and work THAT out before you guys play.</li>
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Exciting is different from dumb, you see! So please ensure that you are AWARE of safe call, KNOW it's an option. USE it !</div>
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Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-29889661109392528202017-04-01T15:09:00.000-07:002017-08-09T06:15:02.135-07:00Myth Buster Series<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
So, it takes a lot of work to motivate me to write regularly, what with work life, bills, health, fitness, family, friends, a very hectic social life and everything else :)<br />
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However, I have recently met some very very amazing people and had intense, meaningful discussions worth sharing. I have also discovered that a lot of us still live with myths around BDSM, power play and power relationships in general.<br />
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Something similar happened, when I was intervieweing for Femina as well as DNA. As a result, I have decided to start a series of small posts around myth busting. These posts are going to be brief, will address a small question / myth at a time. However, I am going to hope that you will find them useful.<br />
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Do share feedback and thoughts. Please also feel free to comment with questions, if you want me to answer some.<br />
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Asmi Uniqushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18139450254078827226noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2800934923133195481.post-42127084943592205692017-02-17T13:15:00.002-08:002017-04-16T14:40:13.004-07:00One down, Two More to Go!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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They were both boisterous and happy. For a change, she had
laughed freely, loosened herself up and danced with him with joy at the bar.
Her eyes had danced and shone with pleasure and there was a twinkle in them,
when she had hinted to him that tonight she might want to make love to him. It
felt good; to finally have her desire sex since that unfortunate night when her boss
had violated her. </div>
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They reached home and she put on some unknown symphony; as
she always did. She had always been an enigma for him in last 5 years of their
marriage. With hurried movements, she fumbled with his clothes as the overture
played and he kissed her eagerly. It felt <i>soooo</i>
good! To have her old self back. </div>
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He was glad she had the sense to not file the case on her
boss. He and his father-in-law had counseled her a lot. Her father was a sensible man. It would have been a futile and an endless
journey to get into legalities without much of a proof. Also, they wouldn’t have then got the
huge settlement that asshole of her boss had offered outside the court. Thanks only to their lawyer who could manage to crack this deal. </div>
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He was distracted and his thoughts returned to the urgency of her desire.The opening sonata led to a slow and melodious adagio, he
kissed her gently, and with passion. Their lips were touching each other after
months and she almost seemed shy as he entered her. He found the movement slow
and soothing and soon found a rhythm as the symphony moved on to a medium –
paced minuet.</div>
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He could see her
inner beast grinning as she whispered in his ear, “let me” and turned to her
side with him still insider her. Before he realized, she was on top of him and
with her hands behind her back, she rose up to ride him revealing her inner
cowgirl. This was going to be fun!</div>
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As the minuet rose in tempo, she rode him with passion and
raw desire. He grabbed her hair and yanked her till her back arched, thrusting
her breasts out. He tried to rise. They looked so delicious. He wanted a bite.
She pushed him back and laughed in her signature laugh again. Her eyes were
shining and she rode him faster, taking him to the hilt in her core. He felt
his desire swell up to its peak.</div>
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As the concluding sonata started and the music grew loud in
the room, he made a mental note to ask her to turn down the volume next time.
As the tempo increased, his orgasm rose within him. He groaned and grabbed her
breasts in a deeper primal need. They’d be bruised tomorrow. His lips crushing
hers, he came inside her in spurts. As he flopped on the bed, he tried to
cuddle her, but her inner beast was not yet satiated. She continued riding him
while he lay with a content smile and his eyes closed until…</div>
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..A sudden STAB hit his chest and before he knew anything,
she stabbed him five times in sync with the crescendo of the loud music. His
eyes wide in shock, he collapsed with her sitting on top of him, a knife soaked
with his blood in her hands, her eyes fuming with rage, her long, dark tresses
wild in fury. He died with a vision of <i>Kali</i>
in his eyes. Just as she came and tossed herself off him, to his side, the symphony
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“<i>Spineless bastards!
One down, two more to go.”,</i> she hissed. </div>
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